BDSM Torture – Tits and Ass Beaten Blue with a Bamboo Cane

BDSM Torture - Tits and Ass Beaten Blue with a Bamboo Cane

We’ve had many exclusive photos of cutters on Best Gore, but never of fans and practitioners of BDSM. Being a dominant male, all my previous relationships had been sub/dom – before I realized FV bitches are so useless I’m better off looking for a Yeti. As such, in spite of the initial bitchslap Kazzak chastised me with, her pictures hit home.

There is a lot I could say about the way sub/dom relationships are, as it is something the sheep don’t understand as much as they don’t understand Best Gore. They think that treating a submissive female as a slave is corrupt and offensive, yet they’ve never known one to understand the empowering feeling of a master being a slave’s slave.

It’s strikingly awe inspiring how it’s the slaves who get manhandled during BDSM sessions, yet it’s the masters who go out of their way to treat their slaves as shit because this is what slaves want. In other words – as a dom, even though you’re always in control, you use your control to please your slave, which literally makes you your slave’s slave. Did I lose you there? Don’t worry, I’m sure sub/dom people will know what I’m talking about.

What sheep also don’t understand is how open minded BDSM relationships are. The amount of trust exhibited by the slave, as well as the amount of responsibility exhibited by the master are something relationships which never experiment with out-of-the-ordinary will never experience. There is more to sex than missionary, doggy style and cowgirl, but while BDSM relationships explore it and strengthen their bonds with it, the sheep will die having never known the real pleasure. But this post is not about me.

Best Gore member Kazzak is a very submissive female. She’s a big time masochist who enjoys when her man gets really rough with her. I’ll let her explain the story behind the photos which she provided exclusively to Best Gore in her own words:

I’ve been visiting your site for a long time, but I resisted registering because I sometimes disagree with your commentary, and didn’t trust myself to keep my mouth shut (Mark’s note – BURRRRN!). However, the Open Posts you have been making lately have shown me that you’re open to differing opinions and can hold your own in an intelligent debate.

So here I am!

I have a few images of myself taken a few years ago, after some pretty intense S&M adventures with a thick bamboo cane. There are shots of my freshly beaten ass and tits, then shots a few days later when everything has turned black and blue…

I was in a BDSM relationship for about 2 years – I am a masochist – I love pain and humiliation and fear, but it’s hard to find guys who will take things to the extreme. This guy had no problems torturing me – beating, cutting, burning, hanging, water torture. I have pictures and videos of these things, but you can see my face. If I die, I’ll leave them to Best Gore in my will.

The caning was punishment for flirting with other guys in a bar, which to be honest I probably did in the hopes of being punished. Before each stroke, I was made to beg him to hurt me. And hurt it did – much more than regular beatings, cutting, or even burning. He also hit my pussy and feet, although for some reason there are no photos of either of those. The strokes on my thigh permanently damaged the fat cells, so I still have indents from where I was hit.

There’s also one photo of my face wrapped in duct tape during a session where he repeatedly chocked me to unconsciousness and cut me with a razor. Sorry about the crappy quality.

My Best Gore avatar is also me – it’s my favourite picture of myself. You can see an old yellow bruise on my face and my long hair is so matted with all kinds of fluids that it looks short. I’d also just been strangled, so I’m barely conscious and don’t remember the photo being taken. I think I look kind of dead…

We are no longer in a relationship, but I cherish every scar he gave me.

I hope you enjoy the pictures and story as much as I enjoy Best Gore.

Kazzak

I think that at this point there are many S.O.B.’s who would like to ask this question so on behalf of them all… are you currently accepting applications for a new boyfriend?

Just a friendly reminder that I always protect submitters of exclusive content. Anyone disrespecting or degrading the submitter will be dealt with accordingly.

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219 thoughts on “BDSM Torture – Tits and Ass Beaten Blue with a Bamboo Cane

  1. Beautiful. I envy people who can find a partner who’s into the same thing that they’re into. It’s harder than most vanilla sheep people would think… Assholes… With their bland, boring missionary sex lives. I’ve always been into S&M. Ever since I first “noticed” girls. There was always an element of dom/sub, and sadism/masochism, to my fantasies. I can relate to these pics in a submissive kind of way, and I applaud this relationship.

      • If you’re not into it, then the experience probably wouldn’t work. Both people have to be on the same page.

        I can understand your experimental attitude, though. It’s always nice to get away from the same ol’ same ol’ in-out-in-out sex routine.

        • I’m not into it “as in hardcore” but the past years been having BDSM fantasies just nothing extreme like needles or wax :x

          i want my own pet slave someday! :) what i like about BDSM is handcuffs, hard spanking, rope around the body, slave humiliation, hair pulling, burning skin, anal gape, hard fucking, titty torture (includes teeth play) that’s all i can think of right now :P

          • That’s why you chose Jesus as your handle. Nails through the hands, and feet. I GET you now, dude! You sadistic bastard!

            Just kidding, but seriously, hey… Find somebody to play with. You might get addicted to it, and if you disappear from Best Gore, we’ll be able to guess where you are: a dungeon! Just follow the flogging sounds.

          • I love being choked, spanked, and having my hair pulled. I think it’s the sexiest thing ever. And I understand the whole BDSM thing, because I love being dominated. I just think this is too much. But who are we to judge? Sex is sex and pleasure is something completely different. If it works for you, the that’s great.

          • ambyth: I agree with you. I’m not into this level of pain, either, but if two consenting people like this, then hey, have fun.

            “I love being choked, spanked, and having my hair pulled. I think it’s the sexiest thing ever.”

            I am charmed by this statement. I like hearing women talk about what turns them on. :)

    • Indeed do I Vic.

      Although in all fairness… I am a Masochist, not a Sadist. I would worry too much about doing serious damage to a loved one.

      Add to the fact that I have a very vestigial sense of danger and self-preservation…

      I am up for a David Carradine/ Steven Milligan style death in my early 30s.

      The Wifey has already started to experiment hog tieing and gagging me up and sticking frozen grapes up my arse.

      • Aha!! Do those grapes get time to defrost before you shoot them out ??? Try using deep heat
        or vicks vapo-rub for lubricant,that should get your freak on…thomas the GPMG on full auto.

        • I dunno Oddy!

          Once they go up there I never see them again… Hmm, a spot of deep heat up the bummywummy ought to be interesting!

          Haha. GPMG on FULL auto… You won’t find any serving member of HM Forces stupid enough to attempt that feat.

          The Jamaicans use them though… You can ask them nicely!

    • Yes, It’s great seeing people find their right choice of partnership.
      For once I want to be in a “normal” relation, With no cigarette burns, No witch craft, No whips, Hell..even no cursing.
      Asexuality ftw.

      • Talking about witchcraft, whips and demonic sex…

        Pam is asking about y’all, especially since I told her Brokeback is back.

        She can’t be on much cus her tinterweb is on the fritz. And is relying on her mobile.

        Let us all offer our naked bodies and repeated self-flagellation in tribute and hopes tinternet would be back on.

  2. Well thank you both to Kazzak and Mark for showing me a newer BG and trying to explain the lifestyle. I personally, being very open and honest here, have done plenty of fucking in my life, I’m a pretty open to try anything once chick(and moreso if I enjoy it) However, probably due to already having looked like this lots at school as a child, it steered me away from attempting anything like this. My fathers favorite was the lamp wires….and boots, and didn’t discriminate as to where they wound up.
    In saying that, I have always been the submissive in the relationship. Thank you for sharing. :)

    • My dad used to whip my ass with a belt every time I brought home a bad report card. Didn’t deter me from being the way I am, and I damn sure don’t think of him when a dominatrix is working me over! I love my dad, but not like THAT!

      • Til you were black and blue and bleeding? If so, and you still enjoy this type of stuff, all the power. As I said, if I hadn’t gone through this same shit as a kid, I likely would have tried this. Thats all. If I tried this all I would see is my father. That’s all. I think it’s pretty cool to be able to try something like this, with a partner, and if you enjoy it,keep it up. However there was nothing that get me past my past, if you get me.

        • @daweeka
          Really sorry you had that happen to you! You seem like a great person and if I’m not mistaken you have kids yes?Just make sure you do everything you can to treat them wonderfully and I hope you know you have a good place to rest in whatever is after this life’

          • Dear Spanky,
            My children, are my life. I don’t raise my voice (or seldom)to them, let alone my hands, belts or feet. I would feel like the biggest bully.Children are a real blessing,having them made my life a much much better one than it was before their arrival. My eighteen year old daughter, calls me her best friend and confides her deepest secrets to me, without filtering anything. Thank you for your kind words, I actually feel the same about you and many of the other members of this site/community. (Suck moment coming…)but you all are terrific people! Straight up and easy to open up to. Thanks all for being this way. Lisa.

      • I know it sounds like I’m being a whiner, honestly I really wasn’t, I was merely expressing the fact that, although, I admittedly have had fantasies of this form of sexuality, unfortunately, I would have a great problem, putting them into action, and exploring them. That’s all. I often think, that when I share an experience, some people may take it as I’m a whine ass, seeking sympathy, or attention. I really just have come to trust this community, and like to share parts of my life, in a place such as this, without people passing judgements on me. I’m no prude, by any stretch of the imagination, and the people in this community, seem to be so forward, it makes one want to be as well, that’s all…
        We’ve all had experiences, done things we aren’t proud of, but I like the fact that I can be myself here. I don’t feel judged, well, for the most part I’ve not felt that. So this is the reason I tell people in here, about myself, and my history. Which makes me wish more people were forthcoming and downright “human” on other sites, but the other places, are so judgmental, that I wouldn’t dare say what I say here, anywhere else. That’s all, no sympathy needed, I am just sharing a part of who I am, after all, who we are today, has everything to do with where we’ve been, done and how we were raised. That’s all.
        I look at it with the perspective that it’s maybe one of those things I would have enjoyed, I am almost envious of people who can stand out on a limb with another person, and have that element of trust, it’s gotta be awesome, the ability to trust your partner to that extent. This is what my opinion is. Did that make sense? Hope it did to you, because I’m not certain myself…. ;)

        • You made sense their Lisa…

          I just hope that those fantasies involve me.

          Admittedly, I am more a Masochist than a Sadist. Although I guess after a bit of psyching up I can take you to penetration station… Via a good thrashing.

          • Haha, Tom, you are certainly a sweet n sexy young man. You have a velvet tongue(could be taken in two ways, and today nothing comes out of my mouth that doesn’t sound dirty to me…as I mentioned, I’ve been thinking about this post all morning, haha.)But with a tongue like that, and a gorgeous face like that, you are trying to tempt me into breaking my never a younger man ethic….HA! I always appreciate your comments, both supportive and you seem to get me. Which is of course what every woman wants, to be got. In the verbal sense, the rest you can dirty up in your mind as much as possible, lol.

          • Ooh.. Lisa!

            You are making me come over all funny! Haha.

            I have been praised on my tongue skillz…

            I can be your dirty little secret.. Although your fucking kike neighbours will be wondering about the thuds, thwacks and moans.

            Well, as long as politics/ race/ religion aren’t brought up. I can talk to anybody.

            I become an intolerant,
            loud little bastard with those.

      • I took it as a life lesson, everything that was done to me, I refuse to repeat that pattern, making me a very patient, understanding and loving mum, and overall person. So I didn’t walk away a victim, yet a considerably stronger person, I believe. With a greater understanding of life. So don’t take it sadly, it was a learning lesson, and my kids are my biggest fans because of it…. :)

        • Bravo, Lisa. With the right mindset, our past abuse does make us stronger, and look what a caring mother you’ve become in spite of (because of?) it.

          Incidentally, you can still experience the lifestyle without looking like you might be morphing into a human plum. :-)

    • Ever got the wire coat hanger? That shit left lines on my ass -_- happens a lot in Mexican families. Nothing really seems over dramatic to me any more. After a while the pain stops and you don’t cry anymore. Its only your childhood :)

  3. Wow!! And I thought i liked it rough, bit of nipple pinching and hair pulling! This is taken it to a whole new level, each to their own, as long as you both enjoyed it, no harm done lol!

    • Yea , I myself am more like you , a little pinching & pulling , at just the right time. But holy fuck man , I would loose my woody beating her like that. But i respect them for what they enjoy together. To each their own…

      • ^^ Anal sex is rough enough, and even so I know many people who wouldn’t dare even do that, ha! I remember when i dated this german guy and out of the blue he slapped me really hard in the face and I was like what the fuck are you doing, I smacked him back and bolted straight out of the door lol!

          • That’s for sure, I slapped a girl on the snapper once, cause I saw it in a porn flick. The emotions I was subjected to. Shock, horror, anger, and then she got over it.

          • @daweeka, your not wrong there dear, gave me a hell of a fright, riding him like a horsey that wack, I actually feared for my life, lol!

          • True.

            It is the bare minimum of non-Vanilla sex.

            If a girl finds it abhorrent… You can guarantee sex will go stale with a month or two.

          • @ Senor, porn is ok, but I really think too many people fall into the beliefs that all men should have 11 inches in length and five pounds in weight, and be able to last all night…lol. I’ve not watched them recently, but have heard there are a lot of differences now than there were when I used to watch them. I really think people are of the mind set that they have to be john holmes, and deep throating comes easy(lol, unintentional pun).

  4. @Kazzak,
    thanks for the time and trouble for the post. It would be an interesting post anyway but because it’s from a member it makes it’s facinating.

  5. I remember when i was really young an older guy asked me if he could be my slave. He didn’t want any sexual intimicies he just wanted to be a domestic slave. Me and a female housemate were really up for havng somone doing all our cooking and cleaning and he gave me a three our four page ‘legal’ document to sign to take ownership of him. Unfortunately one of our male housemates put his foot down and refused to let us have him. It was odd though to hear him explain why he wanted to be a full time slave (he had a private income). He said that he just wasn’t happy walking around as a free person.

    • Wicked Mama, do you know where I could locate this person. After spending 20 years in just a couple of relationships, always being the submissive, I would love to turn the tables, and see how it works, hence all my questions lower down on this post….I would love to become a dominatrix…or at least put in the effort to do so. But that must have been so cool to have that guy doing that for you, if it pleased him and pleased you, what was the big deal? It sure wasn’t hurting anyone…what a crap that your other roomy had to mix in, isn’t it? You think he was jealous? Or do you think it was simply because it threw the attention off of him and onto your friend? I wish to meet someone like this someday. It sounds really cool…Perhaps this would be the ideal form of lifestyle for me…

      • Could always look into Cuckoldry. There’s a few social sites out there. The Woman rules the roost and fiddles around while hubby stays home and cleans after he gets home from work. Daily beatings and worship is optional. Not for everyone, but y’know… heh.

      • @dweeks,
        The problem was with the slave is that he wanted to 24/7 to be kept naked and made to sleep on the kichen floor. If he just came around a few times a week i’m sure my male housemate/s would have put up with it if we arranged it when they weren’t in. The one housemate in particular said he didn’t want get up in the morning or get home from work to find a naked man creeping about.
        This slave wasn’t interested in a Dominatrix per se, he never said he wanted to be spanked or anything, if that was what he was looking for he wouldn’t have asked a young girl with no experience. For him it was about not having free will, in the ‘contract’ he gave up all his human rights. HIs sexual pleasures would be derived from us occasionally ordering him to take care of our grooming. Shaving our legs and armpits. Washing our feet, drying us after a bath that kind of thing. He made it clear that he would only follow orders from the women in the house not the men.
        The fact is we really hadn’t thought about it realistically, we wer’e way too young and just thought it would be fun to have slave but really, it wouldn’t have worked out.

        • @ Mama, Ok, I kinda see your point, I don’t guess I would in reality been able to have a guy do that. Like I said I think there has to be some form of relationship there and it’s got to suit both parties. I guess my curiosity got the better of my sense of realism. In theory, I would love it too, but I believe to be too submissive to ever really put it into play.Thanks for the follow up

  6. Great photos! You have to careful with your pretty breasts though… I heard that this type of trauma can contribute to breast cancer.

  7. I got a couple of questions? How often does this beating last during and how long is the recovery time. After a beating like that she must be sore or in a lot pain for at least a couple of week’s.

    • Hi Nateball. The beating sessions usually lasted a few hours, with breaks in between for other kinds of torture like choking or drowning (or for sex). Usually 10 strokes, then something else, 10 more, something else, etc. As strange as it sounds, there were also breaks where we’d have a beer and a chat and a laugh before he’d suddenly go cold and say, “Bend over” and it would start again. False sense of security and all that…

      It hurts afterwards for at least a week, but compared to the pain of the actual strokes, it’s barely noticeable. If anything, it’s a beautiful reminder of the pain and fear that caused it.

      • I admire you for sending in those pictures and the accompanying story. I found it eye opening to something I’ve really never given much thought to. Now I’ve been thinking about it all day, haha. Thank you Kazzak, you’re pretty cool to bring in such a new subject. Awesome. I would like to hear more on the subject if you want to share. I find it very interesting. Thanks again.

      • Thank you for sharing. I have heard about this but never had a chance to meet someone who went thru it. I hope you have fun and enjoy yourself. You only get one life, get every experience you can out of it. Again thank you for sharing. How did you come about getting involved in these acts and each time do you guys go further in the acts.

      • I didn’t realize there were women who enjoyed experiencing this level of pain. It’s enlightening! I will have to dig deeper, once I drop my current lady. By the way, you’re gorgeous, so thanks for sharing that, too!

  8. fair play to that chick sending in them pictures,
    i like rough sex wit a few bruises and bite marks but honestly the day my man ever leaves me marked like that is the day he loses his penis..

    im not cut out to an anyone’s slave..i have to be in control

  9. i have to say, i found this post very interesting. i’m not into s&m, and i definitely don’t want bruises like that (the thought of those bruises on me made me cringe), but one of my favourite book series features quite a bit of s&m, which is widely accepted in society, with a masochist prostitute as the heroine.

    thanks for the pics and the story :D

    • If I ever see you scissoring with Elle Diablo, I would Ejac my own skeleton out of my urethra & I would be a puddle of flesh & organs laying on a cum soaked floor.
      A boy can dream, though….
      Sigh..

      • @baked: i had to read your post twice, cos it made no sense to me at all the first time >.>
        @bagels: haha i’ve been switching between brief periods of lurker and active poster lately ;D too bad i may have to take a few days away from BG though (probably starting anytime between next weekend and the start of september), cos i’m moving very soon, and i dunno how long it’ll be before i get internet again.

  10. Hey Kazzak, looks like you have a horse shoe imprint over your left butt cheek or maybe a shoe heel. Wow girl! I would like to try this, but with my luck, the cops would bust in while I was nekked, and handcuffed with a wine bottle up my ass. So I think I will pass for now.

  11. I like to think that i could participate in something like this. But in reality i could never bring myself to bring this kind of harm to someone i would just be unable to comprehend their pleasure and be consumed by my own guilt.

    Gotta respect someone who has the courage to seek out and satisfy their desires, Thanks!

    • I have been meaning to ask, are you a Hungarian , Australian ? The reason i ask is because of your avatar. Soap-Mega-Faus-Omat in Hungarian means ( suck my cock ) ,No offence but i thought your avatar meant ( wizard with your cock ) lol,ha!,ha! Again no offence , just wondering ?

      • HAHAHAHA! Thedre, I love the way that came out. Man that was hysterical! wizard with your cock, suck my cock is funny enough, but the wizard one…what app are you using to translate? I’ve tried google translate, and it’s pathetic, but then again, it’s usually for the correct spelling and phrasing of standard parisienne french, not the bastardized, farmer french used here in quebec. Most real frenchmen can’t understand us…lol. Now you’ve got me looking up the name. It’s quite obvious you are one for details, I never even noticed the name.

    • Figured this is a chance to finally introduce myself. *waves* Long time reader- love the site and all the fun interractions. :)

      Wizardofaus, I just wanted to peek in real quick because I understand your feelings very well. Initially a sub, it took me over 6 years to finally feel ok about hurting anyone, but nothing is impossible. For me, the key ingredients have been trust, communication, and patience. If you find one who really wants it, and your chemistry is good, you’ll both have a fantastic journey. Good luck! Ok, I’m goin back into my cave, lol.

    • I feel the same way Wiz. Ive bruised some girlfriends in the past with an occasional slapon the ass or biting of the neck. Etc. but this sort of this is crazy. Seems like all the women i get with lately want their hair pulled and their ass slapped and nipples bit till they bruise.. I still find it rather difficult to “hurt” someone regardless of whether or not they want it.

  12. I like submissive girls and have no problems giving them what they deserve, which is not as easy as it seems. You don’t want permanent damage and you gotta be careful with blood. The fun part for the dom is you can do whatever you want with her, hardly any boundaries there.
    You have to have a sign or word the sub can use when the lines are crossed too far. And then you can punish her again for using it xD.

  13. Wow that some serious stuff.. I feel for you though it sure must be really hard to find a guy that is willing to do something like that. I kinda learned some stuff from this, really thanks for sharing!

  14. hey, take it easy on yourself, kazzak…I think I could not get myself to do this kind of things to a female sex partner, call me a pussey….

  15. The first two pics of that porcelain like beautiful skin tainted with bruises are worth keeping on my hard drive for private pleasure only, there are no copyright issues with that, right?
    :P

  16. I loved your story Kazzak, and I’m glad you registered here.

    I love pain, but unfortunately I can’t commit to one role. I like giving but I also like receiving. I have never, ever been worked over that badly though….and most would never go that far for someone even if they wanted them to. You were very lucky to find someone who satisfied you so.

    • Being a switch is very common in BDSM. In fact, most people I know who live a BDSM lifestyle are switches. One time they dominate their partner and then let partner dominate them.

  17. I’m not going to sit here and pretend to be a dominant lover.
    Honestly I’m a careful lover, I enjoy kissing the girl gently, On a bed with roses, we kiss all night with little intercourse as possible.
    Afterwards I choke her until she passes out & I steal her T.V.
    Thhee end.

  18. Hot. I have had my ass beaten red and purple but never black. This is some serious submission! And this is coming from a gal who loves a bit of torture now and then.

  19. I’ve been thinking about this post since I saw it, Mark & Kazzak’s comments in reference to this form of lifestyle, and read through most of the comments. This is a mature site, I have a question or so on the subject, and would like to have honest, adult, serious, and open responses on this, please, because I have known one couple of gay men who lived openly as submissive/dominant couple, one wore a spiked dog collar, however, I never asked anything about it, as they weren’t close friends, rather, acquaintances. The first question I have, is, is this a complete lifestyle, as I mentioned about the two guys who were very open about their lifestyle/sexuality, or is this limited to sexuality. How far does it go as far as the sub/dom relationship, my question being, does the dominant role become abusive, for example calling his “slave” a dog, or piece of shit? (I am being sincere in these questions by the way, I am curious) The slave role, does she/he have to be subservient in every way, as in servitude, answering to the every whim of the master? Do you ever feel like you could risk your partners’ life(noted the duct tape/cuts) How about cutting your partner, is this typical of the dom/sub relationship? I probably have about fifty questions and would really like it if someone, Mark, Kazzak, or anyone else, would please enlighten me on this subject. As is with several other articles I’ve seen appear on here, I find myself absolutely fascinated and extremely curious. Please, only mature, experienced and sincere responses. Thank you very much, I appreciate the time and openness…. ~Lisa(AKA daweeka,anyone can call me Lisa by the way, I will be changing that anyhow, but since it takes moderation for some reason, it will probably take time to kick into effect) Thanks again… :)

    • It kind of depends on the person, but it can be a lifestyle. Not everyone is sub/dom 24/7, but some are.

      In a week my boyfriend and I are going to be locking ourselves in his house for a full week where we are going to just be sub/dom with a few breaks to be a little more traditional.

      Some things we’ll be doing may be considered abusive by normal standards or certain state laws, but I enjoy it and I know that my boyfriends cares a lot about me. Soon he’s going to get a new tag for my collar with my dog name on it and a new leash too. That may be creepy and weird for some, but I find it endearing. The same thing goes for being called things like ‘bitch’, ‘cunt’, ‘whore’, ect. and all of the adjectives that are usually around them.

      There are a lot of times in the past, and there will be a lot of times in the up coming weeks where I will probably be putting my life at risk. I’m really into knife and blood play (this isn’t typical but some are into it), strangulation, bondage, caning, whipping, etc. It’s entirely possible for the knife to slip, or my boyfriend to cut me too deeply, or strangle me too long. That last one is entirely possible even on accident, especially when he gets the choke chain out. But I trust him. I know that he’s never going to intentionally do any serious damage to me. Even if he eventually brands me as his permanent slave, it’s not going to be because he wants to seriously hurt me, but to mark me as his own and because I want to be.

      I’m fairly open about my sexual lifestyle and willing to answer any questions you have.

  20. @Mark

    I’m sorry for the “bitchslap” thing. If I lived closer, I would invite you over to bitchslap me back, in the way I deserve. ;-)

    It was so interesting to read your thoughts on BDSM – my partner used to say it did his head in that he was actually the bigger slave in the relationship, going out of his way to provide the pain and fear I so deeply craved.

    You are also spot-on about the trust thing. I have never felt closer to anyone in my life as I did to this guy (I won’t say “love” – I’ve yet to experience that). Especially after a life-altering, near-death experience (whether real or imagined) there’s a bond there that transcends anything “real life” can offer.

    Thanks for allowing me to share my pictures and story, and a BIG thank you for sharing your thoughts as well.

  21. in Munich every year there is boundcon, a convention about all things bdsm. i have never been to such a magical or enlightening place in my life. i am a little kinky to begin with, but walking into a convention center filled with women being bound, hung, choked, tickled, ect… was the best experience of my life so far. i checked my woman into the kennel to play with the other slaves and away i went. any one into this should check it out. lots of fun!

    • I’d love to attend something like that. Nothing of the sort ever happens around here, though. I’d have to get on a plane to reach a fetish convention. Maybe one day. Sounds like a lot of fun!

      • Dr. Strech.

        Your DP looks a helluva lot like Noel Fielding.. A British actor of ‘The Mighty Boosh’ fame.

        @CreepyDoll.

        Ain’t seen you here before… Welcome.

        Don’t be shocked at the photos! You are obviously a deviant (like the rest of us)… Masturbate to the photos… Send in a video if you like…

        • Dr. strech: i don’t take the ofer. but thanks.

          trooper: thanks for the welcome, i’n not much over here, i just opened this acout a month ago … i don’t remember well, Anyway, i would love show some dirty stuff maybe someday, wait for it ;)

  22. Wow, these pics are beautiful. My hubby and I dabble but if he gets to the point of making me cry he stops. Nooo! He just can’t seem to understand my need for humiliation. I crave to be beaten til I can still feel it the next day buy he just hasn’t got that sadistic flare. I think it stems from me. My first sexual experience was a none consentual act inflicted on me by someone Ithought I could trust. Hubby seems to think he has to make up for that fuck, but isn’t understanding that I want to cry, I want to beaten, taken by him in anyway he’s capable of. I’ve never used our safe word, it’s always him that stops. He’s mentioned getting a third party in but I couldn’t give myself to a stranger any more than take from them all a dom/master has to give. I agree with mark that it’s the slave that truly has the power, just with hubby could see it like that too. All he sees is the bruises he leave, not the true feeling they leave inside me.

  23. And here I thought I had a high tolerance for pain..and the closest I’ve been to slave/master was dress up role play.

    I like biting, being spanked, hair pulling, etc. I dated a guy who was aggressive and into choking. He also would want to keep his hand over my mouth while we had rough sex. I would have taken that personal, yet he told me that was one of his favorite things to do, before we ever hooked up.

    Thanks for sharing the pics Kazzak.

      • im 21, most guys think i want to be sub. f that noise. i enjoy causing pain and drawing blood. nothing like the sweet taste of my lovers life ‘pon my lips.

          • Ball busting isn’t my thing. But I’d be more than happy to make you bleed for me >:) I think I scared my soon to be ex husband. Do to all the things I’m into, he didn’t like blood or much pain. So I refrained from doing what I needed. Now my mission is for a man whom wont mind bleedingffor me while I have him tied. Or being choked while ontop after he has done all I’ve asked. I want him to enjoy the pain and commands I give him. Me inflictingwwelcomed and wanted pain is enough to make me climax on it’s own.

  24. Ive always viewed bdsm as an art so admire the submission! I have let myself be choked, spanked and verbally humiliated. Oh, and hair pulling and gagged. I think thats so hot. Of course this was with someone I was with for about 6yrs. But to get in full bondage gear is definitely something I would love to do. And as a submissive.

  25. I absolutely love that you mentioned the dom is the slave slave’s!
    I think it completely enhances the intense passion behind BDSM, a thing that a lot of people deny even being there. I’ve been in a three year relationship and for the first year both of us were very scared to venture into our BDSM side. Now, we have moved to a place in the UK that is renowned for it’s very alternative club scene, there’s literally a whole street dedicated to BDSM clubs. It’s amazing. The more I venture into this the more I fall in love with it. What I found more amazing is that I do not role reverse BUT I can ONLY be submissive to my boyfriend. The thought of being submissive to any other guy makes me fill with anger and turn to this bitchiest domme you’ve ever met. It’s very strange but I love it nonetheless.
    I think the BDSM lifestyle is something that is very special between two people and there is no doubt in my mind that it intensifies the bond between them.
    We’ve also got heavily into psychological domination where now my boyfriend is completely in my psyche. It took around 10 months to completely master it but every time we’d have sex, my boyfriend would command me to cum as I climaxed. It sounds basic and something that any BDSM couple would do as second nature but we learned that if you continued to do this and the dom/domme would randomly say the command the exact way they do during sex, it would end up becoming a subconscious command to the slave. That’s why it took almost a year, within 6 months I was getting anxious if he would command me or not or just come up behind me to say the command. I’d be scared if he didn’t, I’d be scared if he did.
    Now after all the time and effort we put into such a simple command, he can literally make me orgasm just by saying it without any foreplay or any even notice that sex might take place. When I read it would happen I thought it was impossible but seriously, read into it! It’s amazing. To know I’m psychologically controlled and that psychological aspect of his control has turned physical in such a simple yet powerful way is so amazing. I can’t even describe the feeling but I’m sure many subs out there reading this can understand.

    I RAMBLED SO MUCH AND I’M SO SORRY. But I absolutely love hearing people being accepting/interested in BDSM and seeing other people explore something that has become a lifestyle for me is very exciting.

  26. Omg I’m so jealous!! How long did it take to find him??

    I’m afraid to say anything about it to guys in case they spread it and my parents find out (small town)

  27. Thank you for the Pictures and story @Kazzak and to you too Mark for the introductory on what BDSM is really all about. Always have wondered how BDSM relationships worked.

    Personally, I couldn’t be in such a relationship myself because I couldn’t bring myself to hurt a woman even if she wanted it, It’s just not my style. But, on the other hand, I still find the world of BDSM to be fascinating and downright alluring anyway. The type of sexual perversions I’m into is well, WELL beyond BDSM but I’m not very comfortable talking about em’ here on BG. That said, I applaud you Kazzak for your frank openness about your lifestyle.

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