my thoughts exactly itsplaster, we’re on the same page. How many times do we see someone saving a person from jumping off a bridge, he becomes the hero ( Look at me, i’m a a hero) and the suicidal person is soon forgotten and left to get on with it. Only to do it at a later date. Are they saving the person or taking centre stage? We’re here for such a brief time and who cares once we’re gone and soon forgotten. If god is looking for souls he sure is going a funny way about it.