Oh, I get it now. You’re having one of those homo-sexual love spats. Look dude, if you crush his balls there’s a good chance that he may never violate your asshole again. That’s not what you want.
Listen, spend a few days at your mothers house to get your thoughts together and calm down.
When you return home, he’ll be waiting for you in black leather assless chaps and a double wide Harley piston boner ready for your love chute. He’ll ass pound you till everyone’s balls are twisted up like a wire bread bag tie.
Oh, and bring flowers in case he’s one of those fruity poofsters.