@lord-wankdust I’m sorry to hear about your pain. Chronic pain is a terrible thing. I don’t have any back problems; I had a knee issue but got surgery and it’s been 100% better.
But I did leave the mattress I love back at our house on the East Coast. My husband’s place is totally furnished so you take what’s here. This bed is a queen and I slept in a king by myself for 2 years. So new bed and kind of new bedmate. I didn’t think of something so simple. When I have slept well, I fell asleep on the sofa. Hmmm Thank you. And thanks for the checklist. I do need a bedtime routine and a regular bedtime.