@masterplan yes, it’s about leaving a space for them to come forward. Try this. when you’re sitting on the train and it’s pulling into the station you see a woman on the platform, look at her, she will get on and sit away from you. Then try not looking at her or only looking for a split second, she will sit near to you or even opposite. I’ve been playing with that one for a while and just staring at her makes her uncomfortable so she stays away but not looking draws her in. It’s all about that space. It’s not just women who are manipulative. I always say, no woman ever git chatted up by a man, she picks you, you do all the talking but she’s already picked you.