I would not eat discolored ham, Sam I am…or any meat for that matter. 😛
Brandi was/is just a kid, with a kid of her own. I actually sent Brandi a package of stuff for her little one. I had empathy for her, she was sexually abused by her stepdad so I did feel sorry for her. I believe it was really her, not an old bald man…lol….although, anything is possible here.