@mrspock Never lower your standards! It’ll just feed the widespread female fantasy that they ‘deserve’ good, solid providers no matter how many loads they’ve taken. The fantasy that helps to make them so self-entitled in the first place.
I’d tell you not to bother with them and enjoy what you’ve earned but do you think you could be happy on your own? I get a sense that you’re not? I’m afraid I have no advice on how to find a good one either as broadly speaking, and I say this on ‘International Women’s Day’ with no hesitation, women are garbage these days.
Hoping for good things for you!