There’s a lot of material on this subject online and in books. I agree with JANG to just “be yourself” but that doesn’t necessarily make anxiety go away. You are you – just anxiety might be handicapping you a bit. I’d definitely read about it or check out forums online – other people might have stories about what helped them. I think drugs work but it’s not worth it. You don’t want to have a benzo habit 10 years down the road that’s making your life hell. Just my opinion.