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  • #127755

    itsplaster
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    Are straight men less tolerant of homosexuals than straight women are? If yes, why? And are they less tolerant of gay men or lesbians? Please tell me your thoughts.

    I do think straight men are less tolerant of gay men than women are. However, the “why” confuses me. I honestly don’t have an agenda here as I usually don’t get too involved with gay rights. It’s not a personal issue. It’s truly just curiosity.

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    Okay. I was totally tolerant of gay men before it became “Will and Grace” fashionable. I grew up in a dirt poor working class family. The enemy was the poncing Middle Classes and the Upper Class Tory fuckers. Everyone else except murderers were tolerated. Even the local burglar in my street was tolerated and not stitched up to the police… because he didn’t steal or burgle anyone locally… it was all posh people on the other side of the railways tracks. I grew up very tolerant and progressive… in a family of eight (only two females) I had to clean house, do dishes, cook and help. It was a numbers game – not “Feminism” or being a “New Man”. It was about being a member of the family, helping and growing up right.

    Twenty something years later I am at University. Sharing a flat (American=apartment) with an Uber-Gay Homosexualist. I thought he was great fun, hilarious and like me… he kept the flat beautifully, cooked well, bought milk, bread and was a pleasure to live with. I wasn’t threatened by his queerness, I was happily mashing my pork sword up the lobster-trap bifurcation of a sweet English girl at the time (and she was loving it). Eventually the sweet English Rose’s attentions wandered (being a Middle Class English chick she went for a guy with money).

    But no worries…Over the course of that year I managed to slide my Kidney Nudger up the fizzing fish-vents of three women who were pals/ friends of my gay flatmate. Women loved him (he was fabulously sociable, fun, colourful and extravagent). Those very horny women were like sweet spacecraft attracted to a pleasant planet, I simply formed a suitably robust meaty mooring-post and pleasant landing place for their seafoody downward-thrusters to dock upon. And boy did they love it. It was a good year. Gay guys arent a threat… they are lures… bait for the fish trapper… I shall use a fly-fishing analogy here… they are the Greenwell’s Glory, the Kate MacClarens, the Dawl Bachs which a keen fresh fisherman and fish-vent lover can use to fluff, then drag in the prize fish.

    My flatmate never once offered to suck me off. I never attempted to bugger him. We were both clear, happy and enjoyed the arrangement. Happy, straight guys never really have any problem with gays… it is unhappy confused-about-their-sexuality freaks who have problems with Gay Men. Men who are comfortable in their own sexuality, their own skin have no problem with gay men at all. They might not choose to socialise with them, share a flat with them or even be friends with them, but in a dog-eats-dog world who wants to start a dog-fight anyway?

    I sometimes wonder what happened to my old flatmate… “Indeed, I often wonder where Norman is now. Probably wintering with his mother in Guildford. A cat, rain, Vim under the sink… But old now, there is no true beauty without decay”

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    Hoping for Nemesis
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    I would agree with much of what you say. I think women are on average more nurturing and accepting than hetero men so i do not see it as being too surprising that women accept gay men more than straight men.

    In addition,most straight men regress to the average of men. Not- educated ,not-travelled not broadminded,thus not accepting of gay men. Tough- guy bravado and blokeyness also plays its part.

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    Lord Wankdust
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    “most straight men regress to the average of men. Not- educated ,not-travelled not broadminded,thus not accepting of gay men. Tough- guy bravado and blokeyness.”

    I was not “travelled” or “broadminded” when I moved into a flat (American=apartment) with an Uber-Puff. I would question your made-up research where you suggest that “most straight men regress”. I think you are just making that up. Show us your proof, research, findings and statistics which show this.

    I have seen more “Tough-guy bravado and blokeyness” in Edinburgh Gay bars than I have ever seen in regular bars. Oiled-up Gym-Types, muscle bound fisters to a (gay) man.

    I would suggest that most straight men have no problem with Gay Men. It is incredibly rare to hear of Gay Man-on-Straight Man (or Straight Man-on-Gay Man) violence without some level of provocation. Provoking someone is the opposite of tolerating them. Most violence to Gay Men is by other Gay Men. This one had a tantrum over the age of the gay guy he’d picked up. Very touchy, hair-trigger tempers these violent gay men have.

    http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-5139021/Fab-Guys-attacker-jailed-17-years-Cardiff.html

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      Hoping for Nemesis
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      I said most straight men, not you nor other exceptions.
      I have not sought research on levels of education nor broadminded-ness nor travelledness. I do not believe i need to.
      I believe most people will agree that it is the minority of people who can get access to tertiary education in our countries.Furthermore,it is almost axiomatic that the higher education levels you have attained the more likely you will be progressive and also accepting.Apart from the younger generation ,i still believe most men have not travelled apart
      from to Spain etc on package tours where they see litle but their own countrymen anyway.
      As for homosexual men and power or strength ,what of it? I never made claims on whether they are tough or strong.

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      • #127998

        MasterPlan
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        I don’t really know how to address this but… nearly half of the population holds a degrees, and Brits travel more than most other countries because of the power of Sterling. Over here any butcher have resources to do so. The deal on holiday packagers directed at older people is mostly because of family, but they probably traveled around on their younger days, like the youths of today do. But I don’t think this is the issue.
        To mention violence… most abuse against gays are verbal offenses, and discrimination, for housing, etc. Gay people is a very broad group to describe but the crazy type often resort to weapons, like women do, wile man will not escalate past fists. There is resentment that gays cuddle in public more than regular couples, and this affirmative action may be doing as much good as do harm. More people get out of the closet, and more people resent them. Any conflict between individuals now is hate crime. Personally… I saw plenty of fights among gays and much more fights between men. Never saw a group beating a gay guy but clearly happens…According to what we learn in here we can trust no statistics because we can’t trust newspapers. I think women like gay men because they are the purple pill. They are often extroverted, fun, and less demanding of them. They can be their boyfriend and girlfriend at the same time.
        Indeed you called the average men stupid, but Wankdust isn’t very patient recently.
        The average everything is stupid.

  • #127810

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    This is a complicated subject and not easily answered.

    In my experience, and I speak in general terms here, heterosexual men are less tolerant towards homosexual men but more tolerant towards lesbians whereas heterosexual women are more tolerant towards homosexual men but less tolerant towards lesbians.

    Both groups however tend to share a similar intolerance towards transsexuals though.

    Then we have to add in politics of course and the age of the people. People in general tend to be a lot more tolerant towards all the above groups the more younger and liberal they are.

    Put simply, people tend to be shaped by their formative years and as they get older they become more entrenched and stuck in their ways.

    The modern world moves very fast these days as well. In my day it was gays and lesbians and bisexuals one had to learn to accept as normal. Nowadays one must learn to accept 55 plus different genders, 85 plus sexualities and every which way in-between and at my age I haven’t got it in me to even bother to try, lol.

    Anyway. To get to the question at hand. There are various reasons why people cannot accept homosexuality/lesbianism.

    Sometimes people cannot accept the existence of something else that clashes with their own sense of self(religious identity etc). Sometimes it is fear. Fear of difference. Fear of being mistaken for being gay themselves by others should they be accepting of gayness. A fear of being gayed up, lol. Perhaps even a fear that one may turn gay themselves should they get too close.

    Some people also fear their own natural feelings and basic biological responses to stimuli. Getting turned on by the idea of/or by the sight of same sex action does not automatically make you gay. Having your own sex as your primary sexual interest is what makes you gay. Physically having sex with your own sex is what makes you gay or bi or whatever.

    I find that this is where the biggest differences come into play. Men tend to have a very sturdy, inflexible self image of manliness. One where they often taunt each other with the word “gay” over the silliest things, lol.

    Women on the other hand tend to be pretty flexible when it comes to their own self identity. Women can be Tomboys or feminine with ease and they can also explore their own sexuality more easily without being branded and labelled by the rest of society. Being a bisexual woman for example does not carry the same social stigma that being a bisexual man does.

    I guess we are all just products of our times and societies which is why different peoples from different cultures all have different views, expectations and acceptances.

    The pre-millennial first world man is a product of the “man-up” era whereas the post-millennial are the “feelings” generation.

  • #127824

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    I cannot speak for straight men across the board so I’ll not even try. I can only speak for myself as I do have a few thoughts on this topic.

    Disclaimer @itsplaster: I read your post twice and the following are my thoughts. Not attempting to put words in your mouth…giggidy.

    First, let’s get rid of this notion that a straight man who jokes about or casts aspersions on the homos and the growing number of homo sub-sets, are themselves a latent homo.
    That is a ridiculous notion. Let’s face it, the homo culture is a flourishing orchard of jokes ripe for the picking if one chooses to do so. That doesn’t mean the jokester is also a homo.
    I do not like onions. I avoid them at all cost, and yes, at times I talk trash about onions. I’m not an onion. (Yes, I know that I could never be an onion even if I identified as an onion. Just an extreme example.)

    Second, again my opinion. I know that I repress, not regress when I interact with a homo. I don’t fall back to some place in my mind where I feel safe and distanced from the homo(s). Nor do I begin to behave in an overly masculine manner to affirm my normal sexuality.
    I find, however, that I struggle to repress the thoughts of what homosexual men do that makes them homosexuals. It’s the dick sucking, the ass fucking, antiquing on weekends. It’s hard for me to interact with a homo knowing the likelihood of him having had a dick in his mouth only hours prior to our interaction.

    Lastly. Go be gay at home! Again, speaking for myself, if a homo wants to wear a sandwich board sign in public declaring how gay they are, I suppose that’s fine. Whatever.
    What I don’t like is a homo forcing me to see and acknowledge just how gay they are by flipping about with their limp arm and that lispy speech impediment. C’mon FiFi. We all know that you can walk and talk like a regular person. Go home to act like that.

    None of the above comes from a place of religious conviction. I did grow up in a very religious Christian home. Had to go to church regularly. That said, not one time was I ever told to hate someone, condem an entire group of people or shun someone’s lifestyle. It was always all about acceptance. I formed my opinions independent of too many outside influences.

    Humbly submitted
    Regular sexual Dan

    • #127890

      illegalsmile55
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      @dan-a-conda
      I sit here crying, wondering what onions did to make you hate them. I’m disenchanted by this news. How can I cook for you if you don’t like onions? …..it’s a sign of gayness to not like onions. 😛

    • #127903

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      @dan-a-conda

      When I first saw a woman naked, I started seen all of them naked. When I fist had sex, I would imagine every women doing all kinds of naughty stuff… I’m not implying you did something I’m sure you didn’t 😛 but I hate onions too, on that I agree 🙂 If you really mean onions.

      I’m not in favor them walking around on tutu dresses, but… We want to me able to show our muscles and masculinity, just like women wants to attract partners dressing like whores (or just fucking tease). Gay must be able to express themselves too… they can’t be gay only at home, or they will be lonely at home, or segregated to gay bars. I’m in favor to strict rules at work, and limited rules everywhere else… for all.. and is woman who is pushing the limits.. I’m in London and gays don’t dress like in Gay Pride Day… often. I don’t know what to do about the flaming gay type… i don’t think is natural and indeed bothers me.

      What I really don’t like… is their over representation in the media… like half of us are gays, and the way some school program are trying to force gayness in a super positive light… Like in Sweden.

      • #127922

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        I am repulsed by gays, especially men, making out in public. I don’t want to see “regular sexual” people make out in public either, but I’m not totally grossed at by it, like I am with homos. 😀

      • #127927

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        When I said… be able to express themselves… I meant be able use some discrete garnet, rainbow shit. Making out in public is terrible, only teens do that. Gays indeed take the cake on this one… Siting in another guys lap on the tube and kissing… they are asking to be hated! I don’t have the same opinion of lesbians tho, as long as they don’t mind I watch it like a freak 🙂 but better put a stop in the whole thing. 🙂

      • #127964

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        I knew what you meant, I was just stating my opinion about gays sucking face in front of me. I live in a town that’s too Fucking gay friendly. They all have money, I’ve worked for quite a few of them, and they are all loaded. They’re great to work for!
        I don’t care what people want to do in their bedroom, just keep it there with the homoerotic dream catchers.
        @masterplan

      • #127939

        Danaconda
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        @masterplan
        One need not be a practitioner to know what homos do to each other. It’s in their title. Ive never daydreamed about the gays and their gay ways. I’m simply aware that a gay guy, in all likelihood, had a dick in his mouth within the last twelve hrs. and now he’s in my space with dick breath.
        Everyone has experienced a human behavior that leaves them dumbfounded and/or repulsed. Faggotry is one that I will never understand. Not a hater, just prefer to keep my distance, and yes, make tons of jokes at their expense.

        @illegalsmile55
        If disliking onions is a sign of gayness then I’m the gayest flaming jizz gargling fag on earth! If I find a sliver of onion in my food someone’s getting fisted right in their asshole.

      • #127962

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        Okay! okay, so you don’t like onions, whatever, I’ll get over it. I’m almost there right now.

        *mentally retarded note to self* no onions for @dan-a-conda

      • #127967

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        Well now I’m disappointed. I was hoping that you would begin chopping onions at the speed of light while I lube my fist.
        @illegalsmile55

      • #127969

        illegalsmile55
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        LOL
        Of course you are. I wasn’t sure who “someone” was, and I didn’t want to assume. Chop chop.
        @dan-a-conda

      • #128207

        MasterPlan
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        I’m good with that @dan-a-conda, as long as you can take jokes without loosing your cool, and I’m sure not here to reprehend jokes 🙂 It makes me VERY uncomfortable when when they hit on me, specially DISTRESSING if they are insistent, and sadly… they often are. As for your point… That’s what girls do! Never been or intent to be with a gay guy, but I have a funny question. Does it make me gay to be in the receiving end of a Greek kiss? 😛 Better never let them come near it 😛

      • #128218

        Hoping for Nemesis
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        Wtf is a Greek Kiss? I have heard of a French Kiss ; a lover’s kiss with tongue play.Yet what is this Greek Kiss?
        @masterplan

      • #128315

        MasterPlan
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        Com’one Nem… It was a fair question to Dan. Are you trying to prove my point? Lord only brought positive remarks on his first post. You saw how I did my best to let that other chick out of the hook in the other post.
        https://www.google.com/

      • #128324

        illegalsmile55
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        Did you get a greek kiss from a female?! Ewww, I’m not kissing anyones asshole. That’s a deal breaker, that should be an exit only hole. 😛

        @masterplan

      • #128351

        Hoping for Nemesis
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        I looked up Greek Kiss on the web and all it said was that it is a Continental European Kiss ,a kiss on both cheeks which is what French,Greeks ,Italians ,Spaniards do. Big deal! It is now uber cool and everyone does it.

        Reading between the lines here though i see it means kissing arseholes. That is Satanism and shit ,always has been and is also to let the snake of Kundalini rise up etc.Chakras and shit! Haha!

        @masterplan
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        So now we know why we in English- speaking nations say ,you can kiss my ass!😉

      • #128372

        MasterPlan
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        Sorry Nem. Next time look at the urban dictionary. You shouldn’t expect slang’s to be on the regular ones. 🙂 https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Greek%20Kiss

      • #128375

        Hoping for Nemesis
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        Haha. Wtf? I looked up Urban dictipnary and it had a note saying definition not done yet or some rubbish! Anyway thank you.
        @masterplan

        Oh well..you know what they say…it is all Greek to me!

      • #128326

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        In Jamaica they call it a batty wash.

      • #128327

        illegalsmile55
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        I’m just an old woman who doesn’t get all the young slang being thrown around. 😀
        So a batty wash is tongue/asshole kissing? 😝
        @1purple8

      • #128333

        MasterPlan
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        I actually slept not intending to post that response… but there it is, and I guess I shouldn’t have raised the question in first place. Everything about sex is gross, including a french kiss. Apparently god created the playground sharing space with the waste treatment plant… but I have very little DEMANDS and this is not one of them… The question is, does that makes a guy gay… or it doesn’t? It is still one way only Smile 🙂 Lol

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        ┴ɥɹᴉllnɯᴉuɐʇI
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        Yup, I’m sure it’s mighty sensual, mighty sensual,
        Until someone does an onion fart.
        @illegalsmile55

        Greek Kiss is an expression new to me, thanks MP!

      • #128357

        Danaconda
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        It’s getting pretty slow around here @illegalsmile55. Are you getting itchy to hurl insults or POWER SCAT somebody’s skull bone yet?

      • #128362

        illegalsmile55
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        LoL! I do, I do!! Speaking of Lou, I was looking at some posts from last summer, I cracked up on some of his comments to Lucy. Sometimes putting a pretty picture up for your avi gets you nothing but grief. The really funny part is, it wasn’t even her. Duh.
        …what’s happening on the prairie?
        @dan-a-conda

      • #128384

        Danaconda
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        Not much here on the prairie. Just watching my lawn wilt in the goddamn heat. Can’t wait till August when it gets real hot.

        Re: Lou, I can’t see any of his old posts. Everything is deleted. Every now and then I’ll melt a Snickers in the microwave and have a symbolic man log power sniff ceremony.

        I trust that your corner of Maine is still fishy and moose knuckly.
        @illegalsmile55

      • #128479

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        Go back to last August threads, lots of Uncle Dilf comments. I’ll power piss on your skull and drop a morning pressie. Alphas for life. 😀

        @dan-a-conda

      • #128335

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        @masterplan
        If you’re kissing a Greek dude, then yes, I suppose that would be pretty gay. Especially if it’s a Greek dudes hairy asshole.
        You know what else is gay? Onions are gay…google it. LOL!
        Also, Slim Jim wrappers are gay. You pick at it and gnaw on it and pull on the fucking wrapper until you get pissed off and the whole thing out the car window.
        Let’s see, spiders are gay. Hipsters are gay. I think my uncle was gay (don’t ask).😳

      • #128337

        MasterPlan
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        hahahahaha I was just trying messing with you Dan, I guess I deserve it. 😛 😛

      • #128360

        Danaconda
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        It’s all good Mr. Plan. Sometimes ya just gotta kiss a Greek.

      • #128364

        illegalsmile55
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        Those Greeks are really hairy, even the women. I had a greek girlfriend who was gorgeous, but she was soooo hairy! Even had hair between her tits. This was before laser, I bet she’s hairless now. I actually found her on Facebook, haven’t seen her in 34 years, and the bitch is still beautiful, not fat with a moustache.

      • #128367

        illegalsmile55
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        Do you mean to tell me that you won’t eat an onion, but you’ll eat a Slim Jim?
        Giggity.

        @dan-a-conda

  • #127834

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    I was raised by a conservative Christian mother and I very clearly remember her making
    disparaging remarks about homosexuals. My uncle being one of them. In fact, this was how I learned what “gay” is. She never used words like fag but she seemed disgusted by her memories of him and his boyfriends. I also have three older brothers who were always at each other’s throats and they were quick to throw around sissy, faggot, bitch, or slanderous queer jokes, etc. when talking shit. All of this rubbed off on me and I am guilty of parroting these same vapid and ignorant sentiments in a pathetic attempt to sound tough or whatever. That is until I was around fifteen and I actually socialized with homosexuals and lesbians. I dropped the bullshit gay bashing when I realized I never really had a problem with gays or lesbians for their gayness. They’re people just like the rest of us and like most folks will eventually give you any number of other reasons to dislike them. I can say with certainty that one of my brothers truly doesn’t have a problem with gays but he still resorts to name calling when he wants to emasculate a man. He’s also fluent in Spanish, and in the construction business, so he works with a lot of Mexicans and 99% of their humor is homoerotic in my opinion. ¡Machismo! I’ve noticed that even some supposed progressives will do the same thing. Such as that windbag, Bill Maher. He will imply someone is gay in attempt to debase them. Being gay is suddenly nefarious when someone is his enemy.

    I think I might be one of the few straight men who has zero interest in lesbians or lesbian porn. It does absolutely nothing for me. I’ve never understood these dudes who get all worked up when drunk girls make out.

    As LWD was saying, I’m the type who wouldn’t go out of my way to be around gay people but I truly couldn’t care less that they’re homosexual. I don’t have a problem with same-sex marriage either, or “gay adoption” for that matter. It might not be ideal to have homosexual parents of either dynamic but it beats not having parents at all, possibly.

    Now some of the more flamboyant, in your face, types I can do with out. Again, not because they’re gay, I just find them to be extremely annoying. I don’t typically hang around loud mouthed people and I don’t like those “grrrrrl” types. LOL.

    • #127854

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      I must admit that whereas I am tolerant of homosexuality in general because what consenting adults choose to get up to behind closed doors is of no concern to me I do nevertheless find that I very much disagree with gay adoption.

      There is a number of reasons for this. The first is that many homosexuals lead a very hypersexual lifestyle wherein they engage in drug taking and reckless sexual behaviour, usually involving gay orgies and such. This is no lifestyle to raise a child within.

      The second is that kids with two gay parents are going to get bullied relentlessly at school by their peers. They will also grow up knowing how abnormal their home-setting is compared to that of their peers.

      In the above, kids with two gay parents are going to get isolated pretty quickly. They will also become maladjusted and suffer mental illness more than most as a result of their twisted childhood.

      Children often get fucked up from being raised by single mothers as it is. Two homosexuals raising kids will take that fuckery to a whole new level.

      • #127872

        MasterPlan
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        Adoption is a difficult subject but there are plenty of cases where a homo couple is more fitting than a regular one. I don’t agree that gays mean orgy and drugs at all… and most likely they will be better than a single mother. Lesbians can easily ‘trick’ someone, even with a BJ, to have a child and surrogacy is still an option for males. The first positive point is that they want the child, unlike the many unplanned births by regular couples.

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        @emptysoul

        You’re most likely correct about adopted kids of same-sex couples being bullied or singled out but do you think that those gays that are doing drugs and blowing random guys in the bathroom at the club are the same who would even want children? I’m not disputing the existence of those particular homosexuals but I’m not sure they’re the settling down type. Maybe I’m naive but I’ve known plenty of gays and lesbians and they were mostly just like straight people. Ranging from the irresponsible partiers with no interest in children or marriage to the, rather conservative, professional minded “family man,” (meaning he just wanted a normal life with his partner, I don’t necessarily remember him expressing wanting children). I agree that the lifestyle you described is not suitable for children but I’m just not convinced it’s the same group of homosexuals who are wanting children. I could be wrong though.

      • #127884

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        @deathpod I agree. Homosexuals are pretty much like straight people. Those who “marry” are better at it than us though, so say stats.

      • #128209

        Death Pod
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        Interesting. Can you post a link pertaining to that subject? I’ve never heard that about same-sex unions and I did some net searches and only found articles that were just proponents of same-sex marriage. Thanks in advance. 🙂

        @itsplaster

      • #128409

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        @deathpod That was worded wrong by me. I meant “so articles say;” not “stats.” It wasn’t attempt at deceit. I think I was just thinking about stats and typed that. I don’t have a strong opinion on gay marriage so their success or lack of doesn’t concern me very much. Sorry for typing that.

      • #128413

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        @itsplaster

        No worries. Not a major concern of mine either. I was just curious what they’re doing better than me and my ex-girlfriends.

      • #127941

        Empty soul
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        @deathpod

        Sorry guys. I should have explained myself a bit better.

        I can’t of course speak about or pass judgement on all gay people however I do have a lot of women in my social circle and this of course means that I also have a number of gay men in it as well and that is where I am speaking from.

        In the above, the gay guys I know are middle class and arty/creative types and a few of them have gone down the child route. I also get to know their lifestyles pretty well because they have absolutely no intention of keeping it quiet, lol.

        I see them do coke all the time whilst out partying. They often have poppers on them as well and regularly invite “extras” back to their place.

        My girlfriend thinks its all hilarious(its her social circle after all) and I admit even I find them somewhat entertaining for the most part. Except of course that two of these guys have children in the mix and God knows how they arrange all this shit around them. Maybe they stick them in an empty room and tell them to keep quiet or something. I’ve never asked nor do I have any intention of going there, lol.

      • #127975

        MasterPlan
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        ES

        I just think there are plenty of different profiles when it comes to gays, as Death pod points. Some of them you will never guess, some are more masculine them myself (maybe not that much). Not saying they are great ether, but considering our average family, many gay couples don’t lack much behind. And as I pointed… if they really want… they can have it anyway, so the system must be able to accommodate that.

  • #127853

    MasterPlan
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    I don’t thing I’m good as a reference but here is me.
    People often group together out of mutual need. I like people that don’t need me and I don’t need them. It is, in my opinion, the only way ‘true’ friendship can flourish.

    Women often have sex expecting something in return… When Gay men are too nice often bothers me for the same reason. I value being nice to others and warms my heart when people are kind to me, I value too much this altruistic mentality. I have had a number of disappointments in life, but I keep trying. I have nothing against gays in everyday life (with few exceptions)… even less then I have with women but they do deserve a comparison. To me they can be as much gay as they want to be and I often praise them for the challenges they face in life (you have to have iron balls to be gay). I’m sure many women often find friendship with men difficult for that reason and I value those that don’t take advantage of the poor guys hormones, so I do the same. Gays are indeed the best pussy magnet I ever seen.

    Fun facts: When I used to grow weed, all my friends ether grow it as well or didn’t smoke at all.

  • #127867

    itsplaster
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    I’ve had different thoughts on why some men are less tolerant. It seems to me that mildly intolerant to completely tolerant are pretty normal. It’s the super raging-mad intolerant men that I think are suspect. Yes, for being kind of gay as well. Nobody on this site really strikes me that way. I think saying “Fuck faggots” or such might be said sometimes but that’s not the kind of hostile I’m talking about. I’m talking about deep rage and murderous intent kind of rage, daily and not just online.
    I think many straight men might say things that sound like that but only sometimes when there’s a super flamboyant, prancing homo around. That’s still not the kind of intolerant that’s over-the-top. Flamers even annoy women and other gay men. But people who seek out a gay guy just to kill or beat or actively rant about gay people in real life; I do think they have a fear of being gay themselves.
    I think much said online can be dismissed because people are venting or something annoyed them in a story or post and well, it’s the internet. But if they had a blog called I hate fags and ranted everyday then I’d think they were a bit too obsessed.

  • #127875

    svarg26
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    my wife hates faggots just as much as i do. she hates lesbians as well. i would kick the shit out of a faggot or lesbian and my wife would laugh. she fucking hates the cunts. i hope that helps. cheers.

    • #127878

      itsplaster
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      @svarg26 Well, I knew a Mrs. Svarg worthy of your love would feel that way. Lol Svarg is a good example of a guy who hates gays and vents online but I honestly don’t think you’re gay. You’re just svarg.

    • #127879

      itsplaster
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      @svarg26 And you hate everybody.

      • #127883

        svarg26
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        i love my wife and she hated faggots long before meeting me, because she is a good christian girl.

  • #127904

    MasterPlan
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    • #127958

      illegalsmile55
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      Onion News Network. HAH!!

      • #127966

        MasterPlan
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        I wasn’t sure what Danaconda meant with ‘onion’ (US slang?), so I google Gay and Onion, and came up with that, But I still wasn’t sure when I replied to him :p

      • #127971

        illegalsmile55
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        Haha, could be slang, but I think he just hates onions.

        @masterplan

  • #127930

    lady-lexis
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    I was always around gay men when I was younger, I was a total unashamed fag hag. They were much more fun than straight lads and more savage than my girlfriends, which I loved. Fast forward 10 years though and I find the majority of them to be far too much effort and entirely too loud. They say girls mature than boys and that still seems to be true of the gay ones!

    Maybe I’ll find myself a nice, classy, middle age gay man soon to have afternoon coffees with and be quietly vicious about other people.

    My husband has a few gay acquaintances, most of whom are aggressive, libtard queers whom I despise. He also finds them tedious but has no issue with them beyond their tediousness. In this country anyway, tolerance of homosexuals and religion/upbringing go pretty much hand and hand, I think. I’ve yet to encounter a homophobe here who wasn’t a bible-thumping nutjob.

    • #128161

      MasterPlan
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      I’m with you Lexy. It’s not the only cause… but religion certainly plays a major role.

  • #127932

    Lord Wankdust
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    @masterplan

    Thank you. That was a very, very beautiful clip and I think we would all benefit from watching this at least once before breakfast every day.

    My son recently acquired a girlfriend. I am of course thrilled to bits for him. She is pretty, adores him and I am only slightly miffed that he has some sex looming on the horizon and I don’t. But he doesn’t like walking about holding hands (nor does she apparently). They don’t kiss or smooch publicly and would be embarrassed to do so. I am far from a prude as my numerous threads featuring my memories of having sex on trains, on cliffs, getting a blowjob on a Irish Sea Ferry, having a shit on the way back from the pub or having an unsuccessful wank on a transatlantic plane. But they were all essentially private acts of a slightly anarchic nature.

    I don’t agree with Bob and Tom holding hands and kissing outside the Nursery School gates where their surrogate-supplied de-gendered child is building dream catchers from Unicorn cocks and Elf turds. They can fist one another to death in their own homes for all I care (and I don’t) but I don’t want to see them kissing and squeezing each other’s cocks in public.
    Rosie and Rita don’t cause me to have a tantrum when I see them walking side by side up the street, I just don’t need to see them forming some kind of vag-fisting/slurping human centipede along with Rowena, Rowetta and Ronetta as they wait outside the machine shop while their riveting tools are serviced and sharpened. The reason I don’t want to see it in public is because sex for other people is disgusting and mostly horrible for me. And most people. I could deal with my own sex life with my partner(s) but that is now a historical kinda document. Other people’s sexual fantasisies, other guy’s wank fantasies, publicly displayed … where will it end? Probably chained to a radiator in a purpose built dungeon in a basement in Clermiston. Humans don’t really demonstrate sex, petting or close intimacy in public. We are essentially private. Publicly we smile and laugh, joke and look forward to the moment when we are alone with the one.

    I think the problem is some people do not practice being private and restrained in their sexual habits. As I have helpfully illustrated in my many responses to threads and topics, you can still have sex in public places… but you have to be private about it. The secret is not getting seen… because you might upset someone. Whereas sometimes Bob and Tom and Rita and Rosie seem to want to be seen, confront and upset people. Confrontation is the opposite of tolerance.

    • #127957

      MasterPlan
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      Thanks for your words my Lord. 🙂

      I’m glad you enjoyed the video. Young Wankdust seems to be doing better them myself, I’m happy for him and he seems to be following proper British costumes, Scottish perhaps. Back in the Brazilian jungle people happen to express themselves more openly… perhaps to much… and I certainly don’t favor their ways. Some of us indeed enjoy the adrenaline rush resulted from practicing some acts reserved for home, in public. As you point… it is wonderful to lose ourselves in public places, like a public toilet, a forest , the roof of a building… but in a public place, is not the same as in public view and those cot should indeed be reprehended. I, however, don’t think holding hands is a problem in any circumstance but discussions must be made to address the limits of our interactions. Despite our personal preferences, it is my opinion the homo couples should be allowed the same rights as regular hereto ones. Bob and Tom would never be together is they followed British costumes with too much detail, and since these are not laws they often overstep their boundaries by perhaps too much and confrontation indeed is their goal, despite claiming otherwise. Until moral obligations are turned in to law it won’t be easy to change their ways so a bit of flexibility may be needed to find a common ground. I don’t really see it happening in the near future as much more pressing concerns have yet to be address but I do hope we do, Bob and Tom facefucking each other on my way to work in front of kids is a disgusting and disturbing sight to see.

  • #127945

    ┴ɥɹᴉllnɯᴉuɐʇI
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    Pardon me for pooping pon the post,

    • #127954

      illegalsmile55
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      BAHAHAHAHAHAH!
      That amused me.
      @1purple8

    • #128187

      MasterPlan
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      We don’t need more babies!!! Too many babies!!! Sex isn’t about babies!!!

      Patois is fucking hard ma man!! 🙁 🙁 🙁

      How tha hel did yu got rid of al yu goints @1purple8?? I can’t find you if you keep changing.

  • #127997

    itsplaster
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    Really bitches? You tag-adding, fuckers.
    Taggers gonna tag

  • #128036

    svarg26
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    tolerance is homo propaganda. nowhere in the bible does it say to hang out with a faggot and tolerate deviant behavior. only false prophets teach homo tolerance. fuck organized religion.

    “If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not receive him into your house or give him any greeting, for whoever greets him takes part in his wicked works.” – 2 john 1:10-11

    “But now I am writing to you not to associate with anyone who bears the name of brother if he is guilty of sexual immorality or greed, or is an idolater, reviler, drunkard, or swindler—not even to eat with such a one.” – 1 corinthians 5:11

    it is truly pathetic for someone to call a christian a homosexual just for preaching the truth. the truth doesn’t give a fuck about getting with the times. the truth is and will always be, to tell a faggot to fuck off and repent. funnily enough that’s exactly what loving thy neighbor means. in reality, i’m the most loving person on here. that really seems to piss faggots off.

    cheers and carry on with your hate.

    • #128163

      MasterPlan
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      @svarg26 :p :p :p

      This video is old @itsplaster, at 1.43 mark he is talking about Ted Haggard. The guy was mentioned on he article I sent you.

      • #128254

        svarg26
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        the intolerance shown towards jesus christ and his words, proves my point. faggots and faggot apologists vomit all manner of shit about those that tell them to repent of their sins. it would seem that faggots don’t know what love is.

      • #128342

        MasterPlan
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        Pat Condell is indeed very brutal. Sorry if it hurts your feelings… I will spare you of more of his vile words. Keep spreading the love my friend. There is nothing homo about your relationship with Jesus 🙂

      • #128415

        svarg26
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        when the son of man returns we will jump on faggots heads and break their teeth, just as prophecy teaches us. there certainly is nothing gay about that. but it sure will be fun.

      • #128424

        MasterPlan
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        @svarg26
        Something tells me you actually came back because liked the song below Lol.

        I’m not so sure Jesus hate gays that much. He sounds like a really nice guy… despite walking around spiting on disable people 🙂 His father (or himself???) in the other hand would just flood this whole shit again indiscriminately and leave no one to laugh, including you. He isn’t really known for keeping his promises ether, poor Moses dedicated his life to him… no need to point what happened to him in the end.

      • #128430

        svarg26
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        no one cares what you’re not so sure of, pip squeak. i told you what the prophecy said he will do. no amount of homo propaganda can change that fact.

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      • #128255

        svarg26
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        faggotry made you very intolerant. you must be ashamed of yourself.

  • #128490

    Just_Another_Guy
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    I believe it is a reflection of an inability or unwillingness to manage primal urges in one’s behavior. In other words, the person is a “knee-jerker”. Anyone can be a KJ, it takes discipline and intelligence to keep from falling into that trap.

    I often hear about and see examples of “knee-jerkers” in the news. Such as antifa, blm, radsocs and the mobs they incite. Also it can be just as true of some so-called “conservatives”. When it comes to the issue of the 3 G’s-guns, government and gays.

    I’ve had many gay men hit on me and try to hoop up with me but I’m not gay. I always politely decline and treat them with respect. What usually happens is they become surprised. They ask me “You’re not angry or going to flip out because I asked you that?”

    They actually thank me for not reacting like that.

    So the answer could possibly be that some people (including women-they can be just as bad) have not taken effort to manage their vitriol.

    Everyone has the urge to crucify someone for something and lots of people spout off at the mouth and cause all kinds of problems because they have Knee Jerker Syndrome.

    • #128588

      itsplaster
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      @justanotherguy That’s an interesting point. I’m sure knee-jerk reactions are responsible for some of the violence as well. I’m sure reasonable people may have punched someone before they really thought about it. Of course, some people could “cool off” for an hour and still be ready to punch. So many factors make a person what they are.

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